Building Bridges
From the Bridgehaven website
By Patty Belden
I was recently invited to Bridgehaven Mental Health Services to attend a “Bridge Builder” lunch and learn. I wasn’t exactly sure what to expect. I was aware of Bridgehaven, but I had never visited and didn’t know a great deal about their services. All I really knew was that Bridgehaven worked with individuals suffering from mental illness. What I didn’t know was that Bridgehaven offers much more than a service…they offer the chance to be part of a family.
Having never visited, I was not familiar with the campus and in true Patty-fashion I entered through the wrong door. It was only seconds before I was greeted and offered assistance by two people (my confused look must have given me away as a visitor). Everyone seemed to know that today was a Bridge Builder lunch and assumed that was why I was there. To my surprise, I wasn’t just given directions to the room, but I was personally escorted by a client. During the short walk I was thanked several times for visiting and asked repeatedly if I needed anything…what a great host! Little did I know that later I would have the opportunity to hear this man’s personal story.
Upon entering the lunch room, I was warmly greeted again, offered a beverage and directed to my seat. I was at a table with seven strangers…I assumed they were all here for the same reason that I was, to learn about Bridgehaven. To my delight, the man, who had previously escorted me, came to our table and filled the eighth empty chair. I also learned that of the eight, two were clients and three were volunteers.
The program began. The welcome and thank you was nice and even included a personal story from the Executive Director…I was refreshed by her honesty and amazed that she was so comfortable to share her story. However, nothing could have prepared me for the next piece of the program…several clients were going to share thier personal stories.
We sat captivated by this man and his story. He was so open and so honest. He talked about his struggle with alcoholism and his inability to form positive relationships. He talked about hearing voices in his head. Voices that put him down and made him feel worthless. He drank alcohol to drown the voices, but it didn’t work. They got louder and louder. They became aggressive and threatening. He drank more. Because of his drinking, he was unable to keep a job, take care of himself, or build relationships. He kept himself isolated. What struck me the most was that this man didn’t realize that he was different. He believed that everyone heard voices. He didn’t know there was help out there.
When he talked about Bridgehaven, you could see the appreciation in his eyes and hear it in his voice. He had found help. He had found a family.
Bridgehaven’s services truly offer hope for the future by teaching the skills necessary to live, learn, work, and socialize. These skills are taught through individual and group therapy as well as skill building activities. Most importantly, Bridgehaven offers a family-like network of support.
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