LIVE UNITED Y’All!

By: Angie Ditsler

About a month ago I changed roles at Metro United Way.  I am now the new Manager of the Gheens Bridges to Tomorrow initiative.  I, by no means, expected the transition to be easy.  I fully expected to encounter a huge learning curve as I settled into my new job here in Louisville and slowly adjusted from my previous role in Shelby and Oldham Counties.  With so many different partners involved in Bridges, I honestly expected that the most difficult part of the transition would be coordinating the volume of activities and people, and keeping up with the pace of how quickly things move here.  If there is one thing I don’t have to worry about learning, I thought, it’s getting to know the agencies themselves that participate in Bridges.  After all, I’ve been working at Metro United Way over four years already, and I already know all about all the agencies we serve!

Well, I couldn’t have been more wrong!  Even as an employee at MUW with a background in social services, I must admit that spending time at each of the four Bridges centers this past month and learning more about the role each of them plays in the community has been a very eye-opening and humbling experience.  For example, in the three years since I last volunteered at Americana Community Center, it has opened a health clinic on its property and now operates a Family Program that focuses on the time parents and their children spend together.  I had no idea that Neighborhood House is home to a JCPS “STOP” program that works to prevent truancy among middle and high school students, and Presbyterian Community Center is preparing to open the doors of its new Child Development Center, making room for 50 additional young children in its program!  Did you know that Louisville Central Community Centers is in the middle of an enormous capital campaign that will expand its facilities, attract small businesses, and hopefully generate dozens of new jobs in central Louisville?  I didn’t know all this is going on, and I consider myself an active and knowledgeable member of my community!

What I’ve learned in my first 30 days at my new job is that there is a lot I didn’t know about my community, and a lot I still don’t know.  There is always something new to learn and experience in our own backyards.  Being an advocate for our neighborhoods and community is not just about sharing what we already know and believe; it’s also about being open to learn and talk about thing we don’t know much about either.

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by John Nevitt

I heard a statistic not too long ago that very few Americans know their neighbors except for those on either side of their home or apartment. Why should that be troubling to us? Well, if it truly takes a village to successfully raise a child, we need to know who we can turn to in our neighborhoods for help. Plus, if we want to reduce our chances of being burglarized, the more neighbors we know, the more sets of eyes to help protect our property.

Another reason to get to know your neighbors is to strengthen our broader community. Our vision at Metro United Way is to build the most vital, caring community in the nation. We accomplish this by getting to know one another, sharing ideas, stories, (and food) which leads to a sense of connection, and more often than not, a group of allies who are there to support us.

A number of years ago, I took a leadership development class that encouraged us to design a project that would enhance a “community” of our choosing. Community can be defined as a group of interacting people sharing a common geography, intent, belief, resources, preferences, needs, risks, etc. I chose to work with two neighborhood communities – the east end neighborhood where I lived and the inner city neighborhood where I worked. I wanted to get to know some of my neighbors better and foster a sense of connection within our broader Louisville community.

Essentially, I organized a neighborhood exchange where we could share a meal together and get to know one another. We gathered in a circle and asked everyone to talk about their hopes, dreams and aspirations, and what was helpful to them along their pathway and what did they see were the barriers. As I listened, it was interesting to hear some major differences between the two groups of neighbors, but I was more intrigued by what we had in common. I created an intention that participants would experience a sense of connection, and would have a better appreciation and understanding of residents from another neighborhood. As we debriefed from our gathering, many reported the recognition that, though very different on the surface and facing very different challenges, we all want the same thing for ourselves and our loved ones and there was an immediate sense of connection.

Deep down, I believe that what we all want is for our children to be successful in school and beyond, we want to be self-sufficient, and we want to experience good health throughout our lifetime. In other words, we care about education, income, and health, the three building blocks of Metro United Way.

So, how do we help ensure we have what we all want? Getting to know our neighbors is a great place to enhance our chances for success by tapping into the caring power of our local community. Consider inviting your neighbors to a pot-luck dinner, join (or start) a neighborhood association, organize a block party, or begin a book club or discussion group with your neighbors. It only takes a small step to get started, and the potential rewards are tremendous.

For a list of ideas on how to meet community residents and to get more involved in your community, visit the website www.bettertogether.org/150ways.

What step will you be taking in the upcoming weeks?  Do you have a great success story about building neighborhood connections that you would like to share?<

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By Judy Schroeder

I am pretty sure I’m not the only one who is still comparing herself to her mother’s vision for her…right? Even when it spoke through dread and disappointment (“You’re not wearing that!” or “You don’t have any weekend to come home?”), Mom’s voice was the one I wanted to hear.

I was blessed, too. I could actually trust her judgment. Her humor and understanding turned all the little household chores into a great chance to be with her. Really, it was a very sneaky way to pull off raising six children born within nine years of each other! Teamwork. Inspiration. Joy. We won’t go into the temper tantrums here. I’ll just say…Discipline. She was clear enough to “jerk a knot in your tail” or place that worry in your own head when you started to go off track.

My Mom was a passionate, loving woman.

So, you know what you do when you’re the daughter of a passionate, loving woman? No, I didn’t have six children in nine years. I have three of my own, and lots of neighborhood children.

Other people I know who have blessings to share, share those blessings as mentors, tutors, and coaches. Many, like Joe Tolan, just make it their business to know the children and families on their block, or plant a garden like Ms. Lucille at the Russell Community Garden, or even outfit a bike repair workshop as Whit Forrester did in Old Louisville. My husband is the “go to” guy for basketball pumping on our block in Portland.

We do it because it’s fascinating to watch the young societies mix and match interests, bargain and exchange goods, argue and test each other over who they are and what’s important, today, in life. It might look like a fight, but it’s a test of wills and beliefs. We can help them with that. They’re all asking to be heard. They are fantastic! The best thing is that as they grow up, another crop suddenly appears. Those young parents are pretty interesting, too!

I am so proud to be part of a community that wants to make our “Youth Vision” a reality, where we want all children to experience “Success By 6.” Your contributions of time and treasure keep great community facilities open in places where families need those safe, healthy, and free opportunities.

If you are the mentor, tutor, or coach who encourages teamwork, inspiration, joy and discipline, Thank You! Or, like me, maybe you’ll want to keep that backyard basketball hoop and jungle gym just so that – with parental permission and an open ear from the house – we can keep tabs on that next generation.

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It takes a village to raise a child.  This old adage holds a wealth of truth.  None of us can stand alone.  We are all dependent on each other and the responsibility to ensure that our children live happy, healthy lives belongs to all of us.  It is our responsibility to make sure this next generation succeeds.

In these trying economic times, community isn’t always what it is supposed to be. We’d all like to think we live in a place where people care about others, where people pitch in to help when things get rough and where it’s safe to leave the doors unlocked and let the kids play outside.  This is what our parents wanted for us and what we want for our children, but is it really what we have?  We can make the change for our future and for our children.

Living in a good neighborhood has nothing to do with the price you paid for your home or the amount of your monthly rent.  Living in a good neighborhood depends on the support system that exists within the neighborhood.  We need to look at the way we treat each other and the children who surround us.  We need to take the responsibility of truly being a good neighbor and looking out for one another.  Every child should have a caring adult in their lives. That person is not always a parent or family member.  Sometimes it is a friend or neighbor.

During the Great Depression of the 1930s, there was plenty of poverty and misery.  People had lots of reasons to feel sorry for themselves, but people connected with each other during that time. They had family and friends around them.  People helped each other out, not only with physical needs like food, clothing and shelter, but also with spiritual and emotional needs.  They looked out for each other and they banded together to make it through.

We are in a rough patch again.  While no where near the magnitude of the Great Depression, still we all seem to be affected by this latest downturn in the economy.  With the housing and financial crises and ever increasing unemployment, it is easy to feel sorry for ourselves.  What we need to be doing is looking outward, reaching out a helping hand to our neighbors and ensuring our children live happy, healthy lives in a good neighborhood.  Life is a lot easier when you are part of a network of friends and family, a community, a neighborhood.

It takes a village to work with the family, to raise our children and weather the trying times.  If we want that kind of support, the place to begin is with ourselves, in our own neighborhoods.  Community, like charity, begins at home.  You start building a good neighborhood when you decide that you will be a good neighbor.  If you don’t know anyone on your block, you can always introduce yourself.  Host a gathering in your back yard.  Wave to your neighbors and stop to say hi at the curb.

There are many things that we don’t have much control over. But building a good neighborhood is something that you can do, right now, in the place where you live now.  You can reach out and touch your neighbor and find a new sense of purpose and life on your street. Make your neighborhood your village and ensure that our children will thrive.  Understand the truth that America was founded on, united we stand, divided we fall.  LIVE UNITED.

What do you think we need to do?  What are you doing in your neighborhood?

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